My wife wants to fuck

It usually happens after you try extra hard to get with her and she blows you off with one of her canned excuses. It may have been a while since you guys have had sex. This time, you are doing all the things that you know she likes. You may have taken her out to her favorite restaurant. The one with no T. You hate that fucking place but she loves it, and you need to get laid.

Can we just cuddle? It happened again. That moment of realization. She desires me. My wife wants sex. So, no thanks?

My wife and I married when we were in our early 20s. We enjoyed our sex life, though I never felt she enjoyed it as much as I did. Her menopause began when she was Hot flushes were the main symptoms, accompanied by restless nights, irritability and a declining interest in sex. She decided not to take HRT, mainly because she was anxious about the increased risk of breast cancer.

Jamie slumps on my therapy couch, his head in his hands. What do I do? As a psychologist and sex therapist, I work in the world of sex and intimacy every day.