How to please a man without sex

Here are 29 expert-approved hot spots worth spending a few extra minutes playing with on a guy — and easy, non-awkward ways to incorporate them into your love life. Ears are hyper sensitive to touch as there are tons of sensation receptors along the inside and outside of the ear, says Luna Matatas , sex and pleasure educator. Try this: Suck the top part of his ear and then run your tongue along the inside, says Matatas. Or you can try nibbling on his earlobe.

What impresses a guy most in bed? Surprisingly or maybe not so, guys do have a reputation for being lazy , most confessed that they're not all that interested in theatrics or trapeze acts. In fact, many men told us that they're simple creatures who basically just want their wives to show up. But if you're looking to give him something extra-special, they'd love a little bit of this. You may be worried about what your husband thinks of your post-breast-feeding boobs, your C-section scar, or that at some point, he'll stop being attracted to you because you look a little — OK, a lot—different than you did on your wedding day. But men rarely notice your self-perceived flaws — they only become aware of them if you're preoccupied with them or go out of your way to cover up. We're validated by how happy we can make you in bed, and that's what we're focused on—not on how much you may have changed.

Sometimes intercourse simply isn't possible. Maybe you just gave birth and haven't healed yet. Maybe you're having problems with painful sex. Maybe your partner is having sexual issues like erectile dysfunction, or one of you is ill.

It's important to remember, whether you're in a committed relationship, or you're casually involved with multiple people, all heterosexual sex does not have to lead to vaginal intercourse. There are many ways to have mind-blowing sex without putting a P in a V. Here are 6.